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A Few Takeaways From a Talk with Ben Stein

I had the opportunity last year, on a flight back to LAX from Nashville via Dallas, to sit a couple seats in from of Ben Stein and his wife Alexandra.  I’m not normally a star struck person but I wanted to engage and introduce myself to him.  So I did.  During cruise flight, I got out of my seat turned around and introduced myself and mentioned to him it was a pleasure to meet him and that I enjoy his discussions on Fox News and his ultimate role in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.  He laughed and immediately introduced me to his wife Alexandra and then was the most friendly, humble person I have met in a while.  He and I briefly talked politics, movies and I snapped the above picture.

You may be thinking, “what is the big deal here?”  Well, what I learned is that being cordial, humble and thankful to whoever wants to talk with you weather its family, an old friend, a client, a team member, doing it with a smile and being genuine is the key.  Ben could of turned away, been stand offish, etc.  He was not.  I think about this sometimes when people want to pick my brain about different things and being a very succinct person it’s hard for me to engage in long deep conversations.

As a leader we are always learning weather it’s from books, trainings or just simple conversations and reflection on a flight home.  Never pass up an opportunity to do some introspection and learn!

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The 3 Things I learned from Super Bowl 50

As I anxiously awaited for the Super Bowl on February 7, 2016 to start, I must say as a Seahawks fan I was rooting for the Denver Broncos, I was thinking back to all the showboating, dabbing, tearing of losing teams banners when a touchdown is made etc. by the so-called “leader” of the team, Cam Newton.  I use leader loosely here because the first pillar of being a leader is integrity and unfortunately Super Bowl 50 exposed Cam’s lack of integrity as well as his lack of character.

The 3 things I learned from Super Bowl 50:

  1. Character: As a man of God I must reflect the image of Him in every facet of my life, weather on the playing field (Trinity Networx Office for me), home, church, sporting events etc.  We will tested for our faith in all these places weather suffering or in joyous times we must always be above reproach (Romans 5:3-4).  Peyton manning exemplified this and Cam Newton was exposed.  The Lord will ALWAYS expose sin.
  2. Teamwork: The leader of the team or on a football team the quarterback must always be strong, positive and even tempered.  Seeing Cam Newton on the sideline on the grass pounding the grass like a little baby when he did not get his ice cream from his mommy sends a bad message to his team and embarrasses himself at the same time.  When his teammates saw that, I am sure they were a little thrown back by it because they may have never seen this behavior and in turn deflated them.  The other teammates may have felt defeated as well and did not give his all as his leader had thrown in the towel.
  3. There is ALWAYS someone trying to take your spot: Never think that because you are at the top of your game weather in business or on the field that you are a shoe-in.  Someone will always be trying to knock you off and take your place.  This can apply to your clients in your business or the national football title. Stay vigilant.

As a leader we must always exemplify character, teamwork and always be vigilant and not become complacent.  A leader is ALWAYS learning.

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5 Things I learned from a Navy Seal

I had the privilege to sit and listen to the testimony of a Navy Seal from Seal Team 1.  I am speaking of Chad Williams who served this great nation from 2004 to 2010 and had 1 aspiration in life after reflecting on many of his failures in his young life and that was to be a Navy Seal.

The five things I took away from that teaching was:

  1. Perseverance, drive, preparation and proper mentoring will put you in a position of success in the goal you are trying to achieve.
  2. There will be hurdles and speed bumps on your way to test your integrity and your faith in yourself to complete the task at hand. Chad’s mentor who prepared him to be a seal was used in 2004 as a memento if you will for the war in Fallujah by the Taliban as a message to the United States.
  3. Achieving that goal and getting to where you thought the end all be all would make you king of the world is the loneliest place to be and you feel emptier than you did prior to your journey because your natural instinct is “what’s next?”
  4. Being in the “perfect” place and the “perfect” time is never the work of man but the work of Jesus Christ. Jesus has a plan for you and the circumstances he has put you through are stepping stones to what He is going to do next.
  5. In order to be used by the Lord one must put his pride aside and listen to the voice of God as is reflected in 2 Kings 5:1-14 which reflects on Naaman a commander of the Army of the king of Syria who was an honorable man and mighty man of valor but a leper. Naaman received a message from Elisha saying to go and wash in the Jordan river 7 times and your flesh will be restored to you and you shall be clean.  Naaman became angry because the Lord did not come and heal him.  It took his servants to talk some sense into him asking him a simple question if a prophet asked him to do something great he probably would have done it.  So why will he not heed the direction action and go and wash and be clean?  He finally did and dipped in the Jordan 7 times and his flesh was restored.

We all want to do great things and be accomplished but sometimes the little instructions are hard to do because pride gets in the way.  Pride must be set aside to be a man of God and I urge all that true leadership is a prideless, humble inquiry into your God given gifts and talents while simultaneously executing them quietly as NOT to be tempted by the fanfare, success or money.

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Leadership, Caught or Taught?

As a continual student of leadership and constantly reading, watching, listening, and doing, I have been reflecting on how and why am I motivated and gifted to be a leader and entrepreneur?  One of my greatest leadership examples, aside from Jesus Christ himself, is President Lincoln.  How could I not be interested in the leadership style as well as the perseverance of President Lincoln…right?  Take a look below at events in his life that most of us would quit.  Maybe it is here that Winston Churchill reflected to come up with his “Never Give In” speech?

YEAR SETBACKS SUCCESSES
1832 Lost job
Defeated for state legislature
Elected company captain of Illinois militia in Black Hawk War
1833 Failed in business Appointed postmaster of New Salem, Illinois
Appointed deputy surveyor of Sangamon County
1834   Elected to Illinois state legislature
1835 Sweetheart died  
1836 Had nervous breakdown Re-elected to Illinois state legislature (running first in his district)
Received license to practice law in Illinois state courts
1837   Led Whig delegation in moving Illinois state capital from Vandalia to Springfield
Became law partner of John T. Stuart
1838 Defeated for Speaker Nominated for Illinois House Speaker by Whig caucus
Re-elected to Illinois House (running first in his district)
Served as Whig floor leader
1839   Chosen presidential elector by first Whig convention
Admitted to practice law in U.S. Circuit Court
1840   Argues first case before Illinois Supreme Court
Re-elected to Illinois state legislature
1841   Established new law practice with Stephen T. Logan
1842   Admitted to practice law in U.S. District Court
1843 Defeated for nomination for Congress  
1844   Established own law practice with William H. Herndon as junior partner
1846   Elected to Congress
1848 Lost re-nomination (Chose not to run for Congress, abiding by rule of rotation among Whigs.)
1849 Rejected for land officer Admitted to practice law in U.S. Supreme Court
Declined appointment as secretary and then as governor of Oregon Territory
1854 Defeated for U.S. Senate Elected to Illinois state legislature (but declined seat to run for U.S. Senate)
1856 Defeated for nomination for Vice President  
1858 Again defeated for U.S. Senate  
1860   Elected President

 

Albeit Lincoln is a great historical figure and I believe there is a lot to be absorbed from his style there is still the option of leadership being “caught.”  By being caught I mean learning from people around you.  I “caught” leadership, drive, perseverance, Love for the Lord, hard work and the value of a dollar from my father, Joseph Reichenberger.  He IS a quiet man and leads by silence and is good at it.  When my brother and I were kids all my mom had to say is wait till your father gets home.  We knew we were screwed and yes we did receive spankings and we deserved every one and yes we are good people because of the course correction.  Most of the time he would come home and I would cower and tell him what I did and that I was either stupid or sorry or both and 9 out 10 times that was the lesson.  He taught us by saying and doing very little because he quietly taught us accountability that would reflect in each of us our whole lives.

What is it that YOU are “TEACHING” other around you weather it is co-workers, family or children?  When you walk circumspectly, others will follow.  Have an ethical and moral true north and always course correct to stay on track and you will become the leader you want to be!